Wednesday, May 4, 2011

In Loving Memory of Gayle Annie Bauman





Last month our family suffered a terrible tradegy. My husband's mother unexpectedly passed away at only 59 years of age & only 18 hours before she was alive, happy & healthy, and loving life.

Without a doubt, this was (and continues to be) a very difficult time for us all, not only because she was such an incredibly thoughtful, loving, and deeply faithful woman, but because of the sudden and fast pace it all went down. We had no time for goodbyes. No time to process what had happened. No time to do the stuff we had talked about doing in the future with her.

I remember the first time I told her I was pregnant and that she was going to be a grandma. I was extremely nervous, as it was the first time Chris and I had announced it to anyone yet. But I think it might have been the happiest day of her life.  She jumped across the dinner table and gave me a big, warm, grateful hug with tears in her eyes....She could barely contain her excitement and sheer happiness that night. Throughout my entire pregnancy she was a tremendous source of love and support, and I will forever remember how much that meant to me at such a vulnerable time and when I wasn't receiving that love and support elsewhere. She was always there to help, always asking if I needed anything, to see how I was feeling, excitedly giving me little gifts for baby landon every time I saw her.
But what I will remember most about her is the woman and grandmother she became when Landon was born, and every day thereafter for the next short 9 months before she died. I believe she loved landon more than anything. She was there in the hospital the day he was born, she was there anytime I needed a hand, and she was always overly joyous to help and to spend any time she could with us. Anytime I went anywhere with her she would literally stop strangers to show them landon and just bask in the glory of being his proud grandmother. I will remember her always teaching Landon new things. I will remember that she was the first to have him walking around in a walker when he gained head support. I will remember how he used to sit on her lap and play the piano with her. I will remember how every Sunday she had him she would bring him to church with her and he would accompany her to all her Sunday errands. I will remember how she would jump on every chance to change his dirty diaper. I will remember how she would sing to him and rock him to sleep in her arms. I will remember how when she kept him for a week after our wedding that we would call every night to check in and and she would be in her bed with him, snuggled up under the covers and watching movies with him.

This post simply cannot do enough justice in showing the love and generosity that filled her heart and that she showed us on a daily basis. I am sad that she only got 9 months to be a grandma. I am sad that Landon will never know his grandma, or how much she loved him. I am sad that he only got a short 9 months with her.

Since her death, I now truly understand more than I ever have before that life is so unbelievably short and you really never know when it can be taken from you. She knew how to live, and her life will forever be an example to me as I continue to live the life I have and raise Landon.

Vegetarian & Organic Eating

Okay so I receive numerous comments and questions on a daily basis about why I am a vegetarian. I hope posting this will help answer all the questions, and I hope it will actually inspire changes in your eating habits as well!
I became a vegetarian 4 years ago while I was in law school after reading Skinny Bitch. Through making that decision, I have learned a lot about vegetarianism's connections to health, nutrition, ecology, resource usage, hunger, and the treatment of animals. I did take a year and a half hiatus (where I still really didn't eat much meat at all but it was more a matter on convenience when I started cooking for Chris and for friends) and now I am back on the bandwagon and here to stay :)
First and foremost - there are many scientific, ethical, and environmental reasons to back up my decision to not eat meat, and why I strive to eat locally grown and organic, but the number one reason I choose this lifestyle is because I FEEL better. I feel healthier. I have the energy to keep up after a 10 month old (sometimes two), work, and function when I'm sleep deprived. I feel mentally sharp, leaner, toner, and HAPPIER. I truly believe in the old adage that "you are what you eat" and that what you put into your body 100% affects your outward appearance, mental state, emotional state, and energy levels.
All that being said -- here are the facts:


  1. There are over 20,000 different drugs, including steroids, antibiotics, growth hormones and other veterinary drugs that are given to livestock animals. These drugs are consumed when animal foods are consumed. 
  2. There are a host of bacteria and viruses, some quite dangerous, that are common to animals. When you eat meat, you eat the organisms in the meat. (Micro-organisms are present in plant foods too, but their number and danger to human health is by no means comparable to that of those in meat). 
  3. Cancer prevention. Of all the natural cancer prevention substances found: vitamin C, B-17, hydroquionenes, beta carotene, NDGA, - none has been found to be animal derived. Yet most meats, when cooked, produce an array of benzenes and other carcinogenic compounds. Cancer is infinitely easier to prevent than cure. Soybeans contain protease inhibitor, a powerful anticancer compound. You won't find it in useful quantities in animal based food.
  4. Disease Inducing. The correlation between meat consumption and a wide range of degenerative diseases is well founded and includes: Osteoporosis, Kidney Stones and Gallstones, Diabetes, Multiple Sclerosis, Arthritis, Gum disease, Acne, Obesity, Intestinal Toxemia - The condition of the intestinal flora is critical to overall health. Animal products putrefy the colon, Transit time - Wholesome food travels quickly through the "G.I" tract, leaving little time to spoil and incite disease within the body. Fiber deficiency - Fiber absorbs unwanted, excess fats; cleans the intestines; provides bulk and aids in peristalsis. Plant food is high in fiber content; meat, poultry and dairy products have none. Body wastes - Food from animals contain their waste, including adrenaline, uric and lactic acid, etc., Excess protein - The average American eats 400% of the RDA for protein. This causes excess nitrogen in the blood that creates a host of longterm health problems. Meat eating also increases the risk of heart disease, the nation's #1 killer.
  5. America’s farmed animals produce 1.3 billion tons of waste per year, or 5 tons for every U.S. citizen. And the pollution strength of it all can reach levels 160 times greater than that of raw municipal sewage. This vast accumulation is not neatly contained; manure is the most common pollutant today in America’s waters. Land sprayed with pig excrement is particularly toxic, since pigs contract and transmit many human diseases—namely, meningitis, salmonella, chlamydia, giardia, cryptosporidiosis, worms, and influenza. Manure is laden with phosphorous, nitrates, and heavy metals and emits ammonia, methane, hydrogen sulfide, carbon monoxide, and cyanide. 
  6. Approximately 800 million people today live with chronic hunger, and 16,000 children die from hunger-related causes every day. Yet the world cycles nearly 43 percent of all the grain that is harvested through animals to produce meat. No matter the species, feed-to-flesh ratios are inefficient—7, 3.5, 2, and 3 pounds to 1 for beef, pork, chicken, and farmed fish, respectively. Biofuel production with-in one recent year gobbled up 110 million additional tons of grain, raising food prices and putting pressure on the world’s fragile food security. Compare this to the 840 million tons within the same year that was fed livestock instead to world hunger.
  7. The senseless waste of the world’s growing meat-centered diet is illustrated by a statement put forth by the Population Reference Bureau: “If everyone adopted a vegetarian diet and no food were wasted, current [food] production would theoretically feed 10 billion people [47.5 percent more people than alive today], more than the projected population for the year 2050.”
  8. A male calf born to a dairy cow—what’s a farmer to do with this by-product of the milk industry? If he is not kept for breeding stock or immediately slaughtered or factory-produced for meat, the calf will be raised for fancy veal. To this end, he will be locked up in a stall and chained by his neck to prevent him from turning around for 16 weeks until slaughter. He’ll be fed a special diet without iron or roughage. He’ll be injected with antibiotics and hormones to keep him alive and to make him grow. And he’ll be kept in darkness except for feeding time. The result: a nearly full-grown animal with flesh as tender and white as a newborn’s. 
  9. I won't even get into all the horrific procedures and practices of the mainstream livestock farms but please visit factoryfarming.com and spend a few minutes reading through the eye-opening and truly inhumane treatment of these animals as well as firsthand testimonials of what goes on in these slaughter houses.
  10. To choose industrial meat is to support a system that long ago put family farmers out of business. Essentially, it is only the big players—those who bought into factory systems—who are feeding America. Yes, we do have lower prices at the retail level. But ultimately, what is the real cost of cheap meat? You need to factor in the $20 billion per year in government subsidies to commodity farmers, higher medical costs attributable to excessive diets, antibiotic resistance in emerging bacterial strains, a dead zone in the Gulf of Mexico, the inordinate amount of oil needed for petrochemical fertilizers, dwindling aquifers, zoonotic diseases, and the list goes on.
  11. Why choose organic? Some of the 'healthiest foods', i.e., the foods highest in essential nutrients and are familiar, affordable and great tasting, are the same foods that are artificially, chemically, synthetically and genetically produced. As a result of this, the human body is not only being robbed of the nutrients it needs to sustain itself, but it is also being exposed to dangerous chemicals that can cause serious harm. Organic foods must, by law (WSDA) (USDA), be produced without use of pesticides and other synthetic chemicals such as those which are easily detected on conventionally grown fruits, vegetables and grains.
  12. Whole grains (versus processed white bread) offer vitamins and minerals, plus high levels of antioxidants and other healthy plant-based nutrients. Whole grains contain protective antioxidants in amounts near or exceeding those in fruits and vegetables. They also provide some unique antioxidants not found in other foods. White bread is made from refined white flour containing several unwholesome constituents and very little in the way of nutrients and dietary fiber, essential for a healthy digestive system and a stable metabolism. Why? Refined white flour is produced from the whole wheat grain which is then subjected to the refining process which removes all traces of the husk, or bran and along with it all the goodness contained in the grain. It is then bleached using chemical bleaching agents which contain chlorine and dried in kilns at high temperature to kill any remaining beneficial constituents. Then they even add gluten, sugar, and salt. 
  13. Studies have shown that eating more whole grains may help reduce the risk of heart disease, cancer and diabetes. New studies published in 2005 and 2006 show that whole grains may lower triglycerides, improve insulin control, help in weight management, and slow the build-up of arterial plaque. 
  14. By buying organic/locally produced foods, you are keeping local farms viable; you are not contributing to the environmental and social costs of the worldwide transport of foods or supporting a system based on the exploitation of third world labor. 
  15. Organic Foods Taste Better. Taste is hard to quantify, but science does tell us that organic foods do have higher levels of vitamins, minerals and beneficial nutrients than conventional foods. It only makes sense that food grown in soil that has been nourished and cared for is more nutritious and will end up tasting better.
I think most people understand all this but they continue to eat that way anyway because of a "convenience" factor or the "cost" factor. But it is really not difficult to prepare meals with tofu, or other sources of protein for the rest of the gang. (You'd be surprised how much protein is in other foods outside meat). It's not hard to cook meat for others while you just eat the pasta, salad, veggies, or whatever else. There are lots of delicious vegetarian plates at a restaurants. And you will find that a lot of time substituting for a non-meat meal tastes the same as it would had there been meat in it. (e.g.,  pasta with a marinara sauce instead of a meat sauce, or a bean burrito instead of a beef burrito, etc.)
It does not cost more to buy fresh produce, but going organic can be more expensive and budget constraining. The way I look at is is, would I rather pay a dollar more here and there and feel better, know what's (and what's not) going into my body, and enjoy tastier food, or save a little bit of money for food grown with pesticides and hormones and steroids and spending potentially hundreds of thousands on medical bills? View it as a wise investment in your lifestyle and overall wellbeing and happiness. Moms -- start now so you can introduce these habits and practices to your kids!!!
Can't afford to buy all organic? It's okay - I can't either. But I found a list of the top foods you SHOULD purchase organic here (also tells you the fruits and veggies with lowest pesticide levels that you can feel safe purchasing conventionally grown).
To find a farmer's market near you visit this site.


Tuesday, April 26, 2011

A sneak peak into Landon's first birthday party!

I can't believe it but my precious little baby is turning ONE this June. I am so excited to have a big day to just celebrate him and what a wonderful, sweet little blessing he has been in our lives and so many others'. We are having a big barbecue & pool party outside on our sundeck with lots of food, beer, games, & cake and I am SO excited for it. I have been thinking about all sorts of ideas for the big day but don't want to give away too much, so here's a sneak peak of what's in store! ;)

1. Landon's going to get his own little smash cake to go to town with and I just made his cake topper yesterday:

2. Still trying to decide what cupcakes to make for everyone else. Top contenders are:
For those of you who don't know, landon loves dinos. This would also be nice because his baby friends can clean off and take a new dinosaur toy home with them

this idea is probably more for me - i love Disney's "Up" and think this would be SO cute! 

enough said. these little hoots with oreo eyes are sure to be a hit 

3. Games: First will be a water balloon toss. Second will be a "How Well Do You Know Landon" trivia game. I have good prizes in store for the winners!!

Okay that's all you're getting (for now)....Check back in for some more photos of my DIY crafts after my trip to JoAnns this week and as we get closer to the date I will take pictures of the awesome food and drink creations I have planned as well as decor items :)

Fab Finds

1. Phoenix station on Pandora. It's awesome, I pretty much have it playing nonstop when I'm @ home working or anytime I'm at my computer. Give it a go.

2. Modcloth.com. I just found this site & I am a little obsessed. I have a hard time buying anything for myself nowadays but I love browsing around. Love this, this, this, this, this, & this
Also their tops: this, this & this
And their bottoms: this, this, & this
And This bathing suit

3. Uncommon Ground. This restaurant in Wrigleyville uses seasonal, locally produced, family farmed, & organic products whenever possible. Drinks are from local brewerys plus some unique organic vodka drinks. Not only is organic better for you but it tastes SO much better too. Another plus, this place also has live music performances & outdoor seating.

4. Anthropologie's Home Department -- here are just a few of many faves: these teacups, mirror, bedding, this little rug, wall mirror, adorable bowl, even their dish towels are adorable, & i can't even handle it.

5. Spring nail polish -- Topless & Barefoot by Essie. Goes with everything and professional enough to wear to work too :)

6. Lulu's. love their sweet lace shorts & skirts here & here.
this fun summer dress
oversized clutch -- i think this may just have to be my mother's day gift this year

7. Cute new cloth diapers! -- Under $20 prints! These are the new artist series 4.0 by Bumgenius and only $19.  Just bought Free Spirit and Concrete Jungle for Landon. They have 2 inserts so they are super absorbant, no leaks, great for nighttime, and so stinkin' cute. As you can see below, Honeybunny is quite happy in them too.
 






Other diapers featured on baby landon are all-in-ones Marvels by Kissaluvs found here

Sunday, April 24, 2011

What are you doing tonight???

Enter Fanfound. The place to go for free and discounted tickets for all live entertainment. Like a Priceline or Hotels.com but strictly for entertainment, Fanfound gets unliquidated ticket sales from venues to the people for significantly reduced fees. I'm a little partial because this is my husband's company, but it seriously is brilliant. They just launched a couple weeks ago here in Chicago and are soon expanding to New York, California, & Boston. Not doing anything tonight or don't have any plans this weekend? Go to Fanfound.com and sign up for your free membership to view upcoming concerts, comedy acts, sporting events, theatre, and much more!

Easter

Here are some photos from the last week of April and Easter. We had some milestones this past week - Landon started to self-feed, as well as standing and "surfing" while holding onto something, he became the proud owner of 6 full baby teeth, & he is becoming quite communicative - "mamama" when he's hungry and "da da" when he wants to play.
Behaviorally... he cries hysterically if you take anything away from him that he's playing with. He gets jealous when I hold other babies. & he likes to take other toys away from other babies. I think I've got a little bully on my hands. I'm trying to teach him "No." 
He goes to bed around 7 every night and wakes up @ 5 every morning. We love our morning ritual together ..... starts with a good bottle, followed by a diaper change & clothing change, then he sits on my lap and i rock and we stare at each other for the better part of half an hour until the sun comes up, then we go into the bedroom and say good morning to dad, then I make coffee while honeybunny plays with his toys and watches a favorite cartoon show ... these currently include Martha Speaks, Curious George, Dinosaur Train, Sesame Street, The Cat in the Hat, & Word World.

passed out with his favorite puppy Champ



just snacking on some avacados

this is how it started




the line-up...
was it Blue the build-a-bear, Champ the Syberian puppy, the crazy rooster, or Scout?


Landon's First Easter

& his dapper polo shirt & vest from Aunt Lorrie :)


storytime with dad



My Boys

Fatherly Love 


The Two Loves of My Life.

Thanks for the sick head band uncle Kevan!!!

on our way back from Easter lunch



playing with the new camera feature on my (finally) upgraded iphone

learning how to stand with dada




I love these two.

Friday, April 22, 2011

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